Friday, March 19, 2021

My Mother, I Love You Always!

 

Our precious, strong and lovable mother, Mrs. Teresita L. Palermo has joined our creator last February 9, 2021.  She battled cancer that was so aggressive.  She has survived from mild stroke years earlier.  Even that time, she never stopped loving and caring for everyone.

On the eve before Mama left us, I cried heavily reminiscing all the times that I have with her.  She has done so much for Hazel and me, through joy and pain, success and failures, appreciations and disappointments, to make sure that we will be able to lead better lives on our own.  I had cried nights before, but that night it was really heavy.  It may be because I talked to her much that night, even though I cannot hear her respond.  And I told her that Hazel and I are successful enough that we can stand on our own, that she has nothing to worry.  I was still lucky I still heard her say “I Love You” days before.

I have not expected that the crying I had that night was a sign that she was to leave us.   As my sister Hazel told me, she left us at around 4:40 am.  I wasn’t able to answer my sister’s call.  I even woke up with our Dog heavily around 630 am, like there was someone inside the house.  I only knew later.  The words my sister told me, in exact words, “Kuya, wala na si mama.”

Upon hearing those words, I felt so much pain.  I wasn’t able to come home when she was struggling.  I wasn’t able to assist Hazel in those times.  I wasn’t around in her last few days.  I wasn’t able to say sorry to all the pain that I have caused her.  I wasn’t able to come home for her burial.  And even today on her 40th day, I am still miles away from her.    

These Covid pandemic times has brought much difficulty.  It has even brought misunderstanding.  I have so much desire to come home.  The health protocols have been a barrier.  Even more, I risk of possibly be a carrier of the virus to be with family.  In the end, I have to endure the pain of not being able to say my goodbyes to mama in her grave, and endure the longingness that I should have been with her at her last moments.

I am very much thankful to Hazel for taking care of Mama.  My bad that I wasn’t able to support her physically.  Every time we talked on the phone, I can feel her struggles.  I salute my sister so much, that I cannot fathom her sacrifices for Mama.  

I will always remember Mama’s legacy, as a mother, grandmother, sister, aunt, friend and co-worker.   Those who supported us from her hospitalization and her funeral shows that she has touched a lot of lives.

While she has left of beautiful memories to everyone, I will always remember her teachings to me that I will always forever carry in my life.

First, in her teaching career, she has devoted much to being a teacher to her students, that she would say always that it is her way of serving the Lord.  She is not interested in joining religious groups, though a lot of invitations have come, even the time she has retired.  For her teaching the subject, and sharing moral values while teaching is her service.  While Hazel and I have gone into teaching, I am the one still in teaching.  Maybe this is her continuing legacy in me, and I do hope I can follow her footsteps to be an inspiration to her students.

Second, she always tell me not to talk too much to prove your worth.  Make your work do the talking, while maintaining foot aground.  People may not appreciate you, or even look down on you, but always maintain focus and do everything with integrity.  You may or may not reap rewards, but what is important is what you did this morally upright.  Thank you so much for this influence Mama.

Third, she was the first to introduce to me the saying “do not do tomorrow what you can do today.”  I followed this saying and up to now, I still practice it. 

Fourth, supporting me what degree to take in College and where.  Even also supporting my first two months of unemployment while pursuing a career in Cebu.

Fifth, and I could say it’s true in my case, she told me that you don’t need to go abroad to earn much to have a house, a car and other things.  Enjoy abroad as vacation plans, not as work plans.

Sixth, her love for classical music.  As she always put to play her favorite collections, I ended up listening and appreciating it too.  I can remember how happy she was that she was able to finally have a copy of a selection that she coveted so much, only to see her cry at the side because I lost it.  That was my first pain I felt from her that I saw her crying.

Seventh, she loves musical movies, theater plays, and even produce her own adaptation in school programs.  For most part, I was her scriptwriter, music arranger and recording specialist.  My sister and cousins were even actors and actresses in some of her plays.

Eighth, her love for short stories with moral values.  She always let me read these stories and let me explain the moral values that I have learned.   One such story that is forever with me is the story of two messengers, where one was asking why the other has a higher salary than his.  It was a story that she stressed that working hard is not enough, but working smart leads you to better fortunes.  I even use this story in one of my classes and seminars.

Ninth, she loves cross stitching.  She always stitches every time she wants to relax from making lesson plan, or just want to have a breather.  She has a lot of finished work.  Some were put on sale, some are still on display at our old house.  I have one of her finished work, and I personally requested that I shall bring it with me in Cebu.

Tenth, I love her cakes and pastries.  She loves to cook.  She has used this as her extra income while Hazel and I were in college.  Mama has given her recipe to Hazel.

Lastly, I will forever be grateful that Mama was with me when I got married.  She dreamed of someday that I will be married and that it would be a Church wedding.  There are some dreams she wants us to achieve, and this is one of those that I have fulfilled.  I will always forever be grateful that she was with me at that time, and accepting Rhea to be part of our family.  I pray mama that you will help us pray that our family will be extended further.

I will always love my mother.  I miss her.  As what I told her that night before she left us, I said to her that I will continue her legacy.  And I will take care of this family in any way I can.

“I Truly Never Learned what the Words “I Miss You”  were until I reached out for Mama’s hand and it wasn’t there.”

See you in Heaven Ma.  Please wait for us!

   

 

 

 

   

 

Thursday, March 4, 2021

Tribute to My Mother


 This is a tribute video to our mother, Mrs. Teresita L. Palermo.  Thank you so much to our cousin, Jerese Joy Madriaga-Santos for making this video.

To everyone who supported us, Thank you so much! May the Lord shower you with more blessings!

Family of Mrs. Teresita L. Palermo

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Tuesday, December 30, 2014

THE HOLIDAY BLESSINGS

By Zante Palermo

The Year 2014 is about to conclude, with just a few hours left in it.  Like most experienced by every living soul in this planet, it has been a year of Ups and Downs, Happiness and Heartaches, Success and Failures.  Depending on individual perceptions, one would conclude this year has been great or worse for them.

December, being the last month of the year, is the time for Christmas parties.  These are celebrated almost everywhere.  Almost all party venues are fully booked, hence the reason some had theirs as early as November.  From big corporations, to small offices, to very close friendships. 

In most of these parties, one of the highlight is the raffling of prizes.  This is most anticipated by majority of the working class.  Consolation and door prizes might be among the choices of Ham, 5 kilos of rice, cash prize ranging from PhP 200 – PhP 1000, spaghetti package, cooking utensils, and more.  Grand prizes might be Desktop Computers, Laptops, High End smart Phones, High End TV sets, A Modern sala set, a 1-Million Peso cash prize, depending on the budget available, and those that are given by sponsors.

You would see the ecstatic joy of the winners, most especially those who are grand prize winners.  Imagine this, you have been craving for a particular item for such a long time, and in that instant, Voila!!! You are the winner!

I am one of the unfortunate many, who most of this lifetime never got to win any prizes.  Though the latest 2 years of my life, until last June 2013, I have been able to win minor prizes.  Since then, I haven’t been lucky.  Of course, this includes the Holiday Raffles.

Some maybe are just born lucky.  Any raffling of prizes, whether major or just for fun, they always get to take home some of the prizes.  Lady luck must be with them always.  Or as they say, they’ve been good all life through that they’ve been blessed. c”,)

AS the year is about to end, I made a reflection of what has transpired in my 2014.  It was a mixture of bumpy road to a well-cemented one.  BY balancing those, I have reflected that the blessings that came to me outweigh the bad fortunes.  It’s been a great year, to sum it all up.

I have not won any raffles since June 2013 and up to this writing, but I don’t mind.  Because as I looked back to my 2014, I have already won 2 grand prizes.  And for me, these are very grand at this time of my life.

First Grand Prize.  My girlfriend accepting my proposal for marriage. That happened at the end of first quarter of the year.  When I decided it’s time, I was nervous of how to present the proposal.  Praise to Almighty, I got the YES.

Second Grand Prize.  My being able to travel to Saitama, Japan, with all expenses paid by the hosts, from plane tickets, to hotel accommodations, to meals, to travel and relaxation, to heritage tours and culture immersions, to daily allowances and more.  As much as I had fun, I learned a lot from that travel.  This one event in my life I’m sure I might not be able to experience again.  For such blessing like this, I cannot imagine would happen to someone like me.  I am very much thankful for such reward, and have to credit people from the Saitama Prefectural government international division for this (Mr. Kimio Wada and Mr. Namba, thank you so much!).     

AS 2015 is about to arrive and knock at my door step, I have readied myself of new adventures to come.  It’s best to welcome the year at a positive note, as this will be the guiding light for the journey ahead.  The positivity brought always bear fruit for more blessings. 

The experiences from the past year, and those before that, should be used as learned lessons.  In the words of my favorite philosopher Confucius, “Success depends upon previous preparation, and without such preparation there is sure to be Failure.”

EACH DAY IS A BLESSING. EACH MONTH IS A BLESSING. A NEW YEAR IS A BLESSING. 

A VERY HAPPY NEW YEAR TO EACH AND EVERYONE!!!

Friday, December 5, 2014

MY SAITAMA EXPERIENCE – A LIFE CHANGING PERSPECTIVE

First and Foremost, I would like to thank the Saitama government of Japan and the Japan International Cooperation Agency or JICA for giving me the opportunity to travel to the country everyone knows as the “Land of the Rising Sun”, Japan.  Together with me where selected department chairs of the college of Engineering of the University of San Jose-Recoletos, selected faculty and chair from the college of Engineering from the University of San Carlos, selected graduating engineering students from USJR and USC.  I also would like to thank my dean, Dr. Virgilio Abellana, for selecting me as one of the department chairs to go to Japan, and the VP for Academics, Rev. Fr. Emmanuel Bolilia, for giving the approval of our travel.



What makes this travel even worth thanking for, is that, we did not use money out of our own pockets.  Excluding the application for passport and Japanese Visa, all expenses were sponsored by JICA through the Saitama International Exchange Division.  From plane ticket fare for Cebu to Narita Airport and Vice Versa, to Hotel Accommodations, to meals, to transportation fares, and even allowances for daily and personal use during the length of the training, all have been covered by JICA.  This lifetime of ours is not enough to express our heartfelt gratitude to our very gracious hosts.  Still, we would like to say, DOMO ARIGATO GOZAIMASU!!!

The Saitama experience took place last October 19 to November 7, 2014.  Almost 3 weeks for the faculty on training.  While most people we know thought of our coming to Japan was just about relaxation and leisure, it was not as they thought of to be.  The travel was a training, a project named as “The Saitama-Cebu Comprehensive Monozukuri Project.”  The faculty and students were trained by being exposed, involved and witnessed the actual processes of different Japanese Small and Medium Enterprise or SMEs that follow the Monozukuri philosophy in their manufacturing process.  Aside from that, the learning of the Japanese culture, traditions, and practices were also of equally essential value, as most of these define the society that they have today.  Truly, there was a lot learned from the culture immersion and ‘Job-Shadowing’.

The students and faculty have different outcomes at the end of the training.  While both are anchored on having a very good reference to the book ‘Life in the Real World’ by Dr. Yoshida Yoshikazu of Toyo University, both groups have specific goals to attain.  While the student’s outcome was how much they have learned and being ready to apply it later by the time they will be working for a living, the instructors on the other hand were more on how they will be able to propagate teaching Japanese culture to a much larger group of learners (the other students).  The students will sooner also be employed to different companies, most especially Japanese ones.  These is being able to make them ready not only technically, but also guided with the right attitudes, virtues, and philosophy.  Or more importantly, they could be the next generation of teachers to teach the same philosophy.        

AS for me, my experience to that travel and training has changed a lot of perspective in life.  Some renewed, reactivated, while some needs to change to be able to sustain life, not only for me, but also for the rest of the community.  There has been a lot worth noting why they, Japan, as country, has been a very developed country, and in comparison why we are still a developing country.

I had my basic education at a Chinese school from my province.  We were exposed to the curriculum as standardized by our country’s Department of Education, and another which we considered as a Chinese curriculum.  The Chinese curriculum, so to speak, was much like the DepEd curriculum, however, it was taught in the Chinese language.  We learned how to read Chinese sentences, stories, books, write our Chinese formal themes, make our art the Chinese way, and even solve mathematical problems the Chinese way.  As a general impression by most people from the community, most students who came from Chinese schools are very good with mathematics, hence, they become very successful businessmen.  I am an exception though, as I chose to be an Engineering instructor.

But what I meant to stress by my being educated with the Chinese curriculum is not the reading, the writing, the solving of problems, but by what all our Chinese instructors teach us aside from the topic at hand.  They teach us about Confucius, Lao Tzu, Mencius.  They teach us about their philosophies, and living with those should make us successful persons.  There is discipline, respect, obedience, patience, virtue.  For nine years, we were made to experience those in many different ways, in a practical and effective way, not on theory, but definitely more on practice.

This is what I saw much in every Japanese person that we get to meet or acquainted with.  They do not just do it because of occasion, but they have been living with it.  The philosopher’s that I have mentioned earlier have given much influence in their community, as well as the influence of their Shinto religion.

Here are the most notable of their culture, practices, as witnessed by me, that I definitely conclude have contributed much to their state in the global world.

Japanese are Respectful people

Bowing is the most obvious exhibition of culture in Japan. It is an expression of humility.  It always indicate respect. Bowing has been very natural in Japan.  It has been ingrained in their culture and society.  It shows respect to the person or the thing you are bowing to.

They bow in many different occasions.  They bow when they make a greeting, when they make formal or casual introductions.  These cases normally require you to exchange with a bow also, to show appreciation to the person before you.

In stores, restaurants, it is common for staffs to bow to their customers, whether they come in or just about to leave.  From what I learned, they treat the customer as gods of some sorts (need to verify on these).

They do not bow only to people, but also to other things of spiritual relevance.  You would see a lot of them bowing to their different gods, mostly on shrines.

When they give thanks, or show apology, they usually give a speech first, then succeeded with a bow.

Bowing has been so ingrained in their culture, that even when they talk to someone on the phone, they still perform a bow, even though the person on the other side does not see him (an amazing fact).

Japanese are always ‘ON-TIME’

This aspect has been exhibited in so many ways as far as what I have seen.  Take the instance of observance of time.  They are always very particular of it.  They are either on-time or very early for the desired time of appointment or meeting.  They never go beyond the allocated time budget, so as not to affect the other scheduled activity.

Even their train arrival and departures are always on time.  A few seconds of being late for the desired trip, one will have to wait for next schedule.  And if that happens, the rest of the daily activities are either disrupted or delayed.

Japanese are Efficient People

There’s not too much ‘DOWN’ time with them as far as what I have observed.  In the grocery stores, line queueing at the cashier does not take long lines for a long time.  While a cashier is available to transact the purchase, putting the bought items into a bag is done at a designated area and done by the customers themselves.  This allows the cashier to do the same transaction process with the next customer immediately.  When there are more customers, some staff on duty will automatically go over to the other counters that are not in use to function as cashiers so as to entertain more customers.

When about to pay the bill after dining in a restaurant, the customer itself goes to the cashier area and pay the bill, contrary to other practices where you have to call the waiter to ask for the bill, wait for a time until it is given, pay through the waiter again, and wait for the change, if ever there is such.

One time, an event was taking place.  The first part was about student’s presentation, so the presentation area was arranged for that setting.  After the presentations, the culminating part is to follow, which needs a different setting.  In just a minute, the façade was changed.  Every Japanese near that area helped in the re-organizing, even those with respectable positions in their offices.  Quite contrary to what we have experienced in our setting, where we need to call someone else to do things like that kind of scenario or situation.

We had several experience involving the police.  No need to elaborate though.  The concerns were processed in less than 30 minutes, with desirable results.  This is not the case with our police here.  You know what I mean.

Technology and automation have further increased their already efficient persona.  In a type of restaurant, you just need to pay the amount to a food you want through a machine, and automatically you will be issued with a receipt indicating the food you want.  Upon entering the restaurant, you just give the receipt to the staff, and just a few minutes, you can start enjoying your meal.

Their cash registers, once bills are inserted and coins are dropped to the coin area, the register’s automated system processes fast computation and immediately gives change in an estimated time of less than 3 seconds.  That’s fast already as compared to a cashier doing manual entry of payment, opening the cash drawer, counting for the change.

As mentioned earlier, trains run fast, so as always keeping up with time.  Ticket of payments are convenient and fast, whether buying through their automated ticketing centers at the train systems, or whether using their specialized card upon entry and exit in their train stations.

During work times, the only long break they recognize is the lunch break.  There is no siesta time.  This equates to more task finished as there is not much distraction to work.

Japanese value their possessions

Some Japanese consider life and spirits in several inanimate objects.  These objects that they use naturally garner personal attachments.  There are several memories associated with the objects, and eventually become their way of life.  This is one aspect of the Japanese culture of having a sense of appreciation towards things.

This gave me an understanding from my watching of animes(Japanese animation) and reading of mangas(Japanese comics) from that past, that protagonist calls their weapons with names.  It is based on culture, the valuing of an object, not just as a thing, but a living spirit in it.  So whenever they give these objects to another, they still feel responsible to the object, and hope that the new individual having possession of it is able to utilize the value of its potential and does not get any discomfort or inconvenience.

This was our basis when we purchased items from their store named ‘Treasure Factory’.  The items on sale are bought from previous owners and sold to others.  Everything was in very good condition, and your money is worth buying the items on sale.

Japanese Love Nature

Though Japan is highly urbanized, as expected of a very developed country, you would wonder how possible it is that the metro area is surrounded still by forests, green lands, clean rivers, undisturbed hills.

This has a very strong basis in their ancient monozukuri philosophy.  Human beings make up the deficiency of the universe.  Instead of destroying the gifts of nature, helping the nature is the best option, by preserving and even improving it.  When making man-made objects, nature is tapped to perfect it.  Understand the purpose of nature.  Be one with nature.  Live with nature. 

One of the most impressive learning that we had was when we visited a road and bridge construction site.  It was the best learning that we had, not because of the how the road or the bridge was constructed, but how was it built to protect the natural inhabitants of that area affected.  The road was of high importance for Japan, yet nature was considered and valued as such. 

A design for road and bridge was already in place.  Before construction was in full blast, they made an inventory of the plants, animals, and state of the river in that area.  From that, they found out there were a lot of almost endangered species living in that area, and it is only in that area of Japan where it exists, so it has to be protected.

The residents, together with the Japanese government, the construction company, the industries that are located nearby, worked together so as to protect and maintain the current ecosystem in the area.

When we visited the site, we were requested to blow-off necessary dusts in our pants and shoes so that foreign bodies like unwanted organisms may not be able to survive in that area.  The construction site needs heavy equipment, but to protect the current state of the land and avoid much dust, metal plates were placed over the ground, so that machines, shoes and other things will not get into direct contact with the protected ground.  We even wondered why some residents pulled several plants with beautiful flowers.  It was then later during the lecture that those are considered as ‘alien’ species, and does not need to reside in that protected area.

They understand nature.  They know the purpose of nature.  They intend to be ONE with nature.

Urbanization and modernization have grown together with Nature in Japan.

Japanese value their past

Their history as a nation and as a country have been well documented, and preserved.  They honor very important people in their history.  They made museums and monuments in honor of them, for the contributions that they bring that brought glory to Japan.

The past brings a lot of lessons.  Some are desirable, some are not.  It is important to learn the lessons of the past.  Not to commit the same mistakes, uphold those that are righteous and worth living for.

This are evident of the several museums, heritage sites, and temples that they have.  All have been preserved, and most have existed for already hundreds of years.  Those places tell the story of Japan, from their hardships, to their renaissance, to their growth as a country.

Most noteworthy places we’ve been for me are the Tomioka Silk Mill, the first School of Confucius at Ashikaga, the Industrial Museum at Nippon Institute of Technology, the EDO-Tokyo Museum.

Other things Japanese do that is worth Noting

The Japanese are very hospitable.  They provide you with anything, and make sure that you are always comfortable with whatever you do.

When you leave the place you have visited, where usually a high ranking person in that office or company have welcomed you, they exhibit a very admirable act of graciousness.  They form an arrangement, where the highest ranking is the one in front, followed by those in lesser ranking in observance with hierarchy.  As you leave, together they all bow at you, stands up to upright position and waves until eye contact with almost everyone are out of sight.

They observe traffic rules with utmost obedience.  Even though when there are no vehicles passing by, they never attempt to cross the street until such time the walk sign gives its go signal.  They only cross the street at appropriate pedestrian lanes. 

They prefer to walk when distances are not that far.  Even older people walk faster than us.  A lot use bicycle as their means of transportation.  This is one reason why most Japanese are really healthy.  They burn a lot calories and do a lot of cardio while leaving for work or school and going back home.

In Conclusion

Japan has attained success and stability as a country not because they are highly modernized, not because they have companies leading in the world market, or providing services and items to other companies worldwide, not because they are a country of four seasons.  Japan has succeeded with one very essential aspect, the Japanese as a person himself.

A Japanese individual possess the qualities that I have mentioned: disciplined, respectful, efficient, value their possessions, value their past, value for nature.  A community’s fundamental unit is an individual.  With those basic qualities, there is respect, love and harmony to everyone.  They have been taught early of the right philosophies.  They have been living through with the practical philosophies.  As they live harmoniously with one another, the live harmoniously as a nation, as a country.

Japan is a model for a country like us, the Philippines.  To succeed as a nation, to be with more good values and virtue, we need to live and act like what the Japanese do.

This is a challenge, not only for me, but all the other co-trainees during the immersed training.  Already embedded our own set of culture, a paradigm shift might be too herculean to take.

In the words of Confucius, one of Japan;s influences, he said “To put the world in order, we must first put the nation in order; to put the nation in order, we must put the family in order; to put the family in order, we must cultivate our personal life; and to cultivate our personal life, we must first set our hearts right.

True.  To change the world cannot be done overnight.  It has to go into single but continuing steps of improvement. 

This has to start with me.  Then to my family.  Then to my community.  The community shall itself be responsible for nation building.

 

A tough task to follow.  It may take more out of me.  Not just being an engineering instructor, but a life instructor.  This is a challenge, a challenge I am willing to take.  A challenge that someday may be the catalyst for change, not necessarily by me, but for those who would follow the path and be willing to change the lives of everyone else.

My life’s perspective have been changed.  I hope to affect someone else. 






Saturday, March 30, 2013

THE BASKETBALL THAT I LOVE, AND THE LIFE WITH IT



This weekend has been a basketball weekend for me.  Lots of basketball games since Maundy Thursday.  Starting with the Miami Heat’s 27 game streak come to an end with a loss at the hands of the short-handed Chicago Bulls, the LA Lakers losing again to the Milwaukee Bucks, the NCAA sweet 16(at this time of writing), Turkish Euroleague, and a lot more.

This is my version of the term ‘staycation’, staying at home during the long weekend vacation.  After doing cleaning chores and nothing much to do anymore, turning on the tube would be my alternative for relaxation.

Basketball is so much fun.  As a citizen of this basketball crazed country, I fully admit that I am aficionado of the sport.  Since elementary days and up to the present, my most number one TV show has always been about basketball, whether NBA, PBA, FIBA….anything associated with the sport.  My most favorite competitions are of the international competitions, like the Olympics basketball, FIBA World Championships, Eurobasket, FIBA Americas, FIBA Asia.   I love to watch and see how the bests of the world meet and compete for a coveted title.  That is why I always opt for a cable connection, so that I can watch the best matches available, as part of my de-stressing when I am relaxing and resting at my crib.

I do play the game of basketball also, though not that much anymore.  My younger years saw me get involved in ‘high level’ competitions.  These past few years saw me playing the game only during sportsfest activities.  I haven’t had much time to playing the games as much as before, as it is hard for me to find playmates, as the game needs at least 10 players for full-court basketball.

I also enjoy critiquing, analyzing the game of basketball.  I would involve myself into smart discussions to to the performance of a team, a player, a tournament.  I love devising plays, as a strategy, for defeating opponents.  So much of this that when I was given to chance to coach our intramurals college basketball team. I accepted it willingly and enjoying much the chance of skippering an entire team.  Haven’t won a championship though, but finishing second is already an accomplishment.

Some would wonder on my passion to the game where I am not even a professional basketball player, a professional basketball coach, a professional basketball analyst, or even a basketball owner.  I am just a computer engineer in the profession of teaching.

Basketball is not just a game.  There is more a lot to it.  There are experiences, and lessons which are very viable, that can also affect our lives.  A lot of people even enjoyed success after hanging their jerseys, to another field, applying the principles that they learned from the game.

Michael Jordan, considered as the greatest basketball player of all time, having won 6 NBA titles from 2 three-peats(1991-93, 1996-98), is now the majority owner of the NBA basketball team Charlotte Bobcats, Larry Bird is the current president for the Indiana Pacers, Shaquille O’ Neal is a Doctor of Education and is also an NBA TV Analyst for TNT, Kevin Johnson is the current mayor of city of Sacramento, Magic Johnson is a successful businessman, and a lot, lot more.  Even here in our country, we have the likes of Robert Jaworski, who was a senator, Freddie Webb, also a senator.  Some became very successful coaches.  They have succeeded in life after the game of basketball because they considered basketball as a way of life, that there are lessons to be learned, that can be very useful to whatever road they might want to take.

As being able to play, and coach the game of basketball, there are three valuable lessons that I really learned and lived through each day of my life.  These are the value of Patience, the value of Teamwork, and the value of Embracing your Role.

The Value of Patience.  The game of basketball needs a lot of patience.  As a player,  I experienced playing games wherein our team is doing catch-up with our opponent.  As long as we kept our heads together, just playing the right way (playing tough defense, execute offense efficiently with less turn-overs, making good shot selections), and waiting for the enemy to lose momentum while we slowly come back and give ourselves a chance to win, it needs a high level degree of patience.  Getting into frustrations, blaming others, are very disastrous to an ongoing game.  As a coach, you have to be patient to how the game is played.  You have to be the pacifier, the calmer, the leader, the director for the team.  The game is full of emotions.  If things go bad, it is important to keep eveyone’s focus on the game and not lose their cool.

In life, patience is always a virtue.  Not all desired results come immediately.  It might not come now, but it doesn’t mean it cannot be attained.  What is important is doing the right things in your work, your relationships, your life, without letting frustration come ahead of it.  Life always has struggles along the way.  We just need to go through to these struggles, be pro-active with it, and adjust our way of living and working, by focusing on our available strengths to make it through.  Patience always reaps good harvest for those who wait and persevered.

The Value of Teamwork.  Teamwork is about team chemistry.  Each personnel in the team needs to learn from each other, their strengths, their weaknesses, their likes and dislikes, and create a positive approach to create a strong bond amongst the diversities.  Everyone should agree to the primary objective of the team, and everyone should accept the roles given.  Coherence to an objective is a must.  If the team aims to win, everyone should agree to it.  If the team loses, blaming should not happen, and instead, work again to pick up the pieces, identify together what made them lose, learn from the mistakes, and play again together with the same objective in mind.

Much like in the professional field, you will be working on a team made up of persons mostly you did not even know while you were growing up.  A team’s success is dependent on the team’s oneness.  Each one should be comfortable working for each other.  His responsibility is also my responsibility.  Be a team player.

The Value of Embracing your Role.  I consider these as the most critical of all.  Patience and teamwork, for me, comes along with this.  A player’s acceptance to the role given to him is important for a team, even it means a sacrifice.  One should not whine because he is just given a lesser role, or just a bench player.  He should realize that his role is important.  If he’s role is just to wait outside the three-point area and shoot when the ball is passed to you and shot is available, then he should accept it.  His role is important as he has created space, a workable separation for an inside player to operate the lanes, for a higher percentage points.  If the player’s role is to back-up the team’s superstar, then he should embrace it as equally important also.  Player’s are still humans, who can still feel the exhaustion of the game.  Giving quality minutes while the star player is resting, as it allows the latter to get much needed rest and have much gas left to lead and finish the game for desirable results.  Even the ‘waterboys’ play an even equally important role to the team.

All of us are given different roles to fill in our present work.  We must accept it willingly, unconditionally.  We must bear in mind that the job is given to us because we are fully capable of doing it.  When we are given a task, it is important that we accept it, accomplish it with full responsibility and ownership.  We should realize that are several tasks or jobs to prioritize, for the good of all, even if it is very important to you personally.  While others do the job and whine because they say that the pay grade does not match their work, just learn to live and love the current job you are now having.  Remember, patience is always a virtue.  Cultivate with what you have now, and the rewards will be reaped later, least you expect it.

So again, basketball is not just a game, but it also has lessons embedded with it.  Those who play the game of basketball maybe can relate to this.  This also can be found in other team sports, like football, volleyball, rowing….

I can’t say I have already succeeded in life.  There is still much to achieve, a reason to rise up in the mornings.  I am just living through my life, living with work, valuing my relationships, with the valuable lessons that I have learned from the game of basketball.  It is important to have positivity, whether playing the game or living your life.  And most of all, putting God within us, thanking him always for the blessings He is constantly giving.


End Note:
Rest-In-Peace Bobby Parks Sr., 7 time PBA Best Import Awardee.  He will always be remembered for the contributions he has given to Philippine Basketball.

Wednesday, September 5, 2012

“PRESSURE IS NOT A CURSE, IT IS A BLESSING”


It was August 30, 2012.  

The second day of the Computer Engineering/Computer Engineering Society days.  One of the major events for that day was the “Fellowship with the CpE alumni”.  Obviously, the event needs to invite a CpE graduate to share his experiences in life as once a student of the BS CpE program, and how it has affected, contributed to his professional and personal life.  With the help of Engr. Barney Cortes, a part-time faculty and also an alumnus of the program, he was able to invite and confirm a classmate of his to grace the occasion.  His name is Engr. Vicente Miñoza.

We were so lucky that he was available during that date.  Lucky enough, that the academe for which he is connected was having their intramurals days.  Thus, he was able to spare time for us.

Engr. Miñoza started with how he struggled during his college days.  He mentioned how near he was to shifting courses, and could have taken a different career path.  Eventually he succeeded with his decision to stay put, and has been able to work handsomely in different industries.  Handsomely, meaning, a very promising profession closely related to his degree, and able to travel to different places.  Currently he is into full time teaching with another reputable university, and does distance learning as an educator.  All this he was able to attain for staying put.  According to him, what I preached in class when he was still a student of mine contributed to that decision.  He said admittedly he did not buy-in to that immediately, but as he tried to take on, it changed his attitude towards the struggles he had, faced everything courageously and succeeded.

“PRESSURE IS NOT A CURSE. IT IS A BLESSING”

I was so surprised he remembers that preaching of mine.  I have not preached of it in recent years.  It’s not that I stopped mentoring and sharing valuable lessons.  I just preached another as an educator, spreading the philosophies of Confucius, having been influenced by his teachings during my basic education years; being a product from a Chinese school.

When Engr. Miñoza spoke out these words that day, this so-called philosophy came back to my memory.  It was one of the two “philosophy” that has guided me throughout my simple life of mine.  I always share these thoughts with people who are very much close to me.  And when I got into teaching, I shared this with my students.

Those are exactly the words I uttered in class.  I always present it at the start of the semester, after the giving of midterm grades, or when I just want to talk about it.  I would do that in hopes of probably at least inspiring them, and not to give up amidst the harshness of their current life.  I talked about it during my first six years with the institution.  And the years that succeeded saw me preaching a different “philosophy”.

These “philosophy” as I coined it is a product of a personal experience of mine.  When I was still a student (from basic education to college years), I’ve always treated all the pressures given to me by my instructors as part of growing up.  It was for me, to work hard, to learn more, to find ways to look for solutions, to eventually make me ready for finding solutions to real life problems ahead.  Solutions to Real life includes things that academic life does not teach, but the discipline and attitude you acquire for handling it, making it the perfect weapons to go through reality.

While most of my classmates whine about strict teachers, giving hard exams, handing numerous projects for us to comply, I just accept it as it is.  I react negatively at first like everybody does. “These are too many!!!”, “can’t he give a simpler exam?”, “Another pile of activities this week?”, “I’ve got much to comply from the other subject, now here’s another?”  Sometimes when the times really get rough, I would even cry in the private space of my room.  I can feel the pressure too. I’m just human, and I have several limitations and weaknesses.  Yet, I never thought of thinking into giving up and instead push my mind that I can do this.  And I can do it one step at a time.

Those pressures had evolved me into being a pro-active person.  I make the most of what I have, and what I can do.  What I am capable of determines the type of effort I put into achieving things.  Though I entertained the idea of “If I have this…..I can do this………….” , I never limited myself because of that.  Instead, I just maximize my most available resources, and put my most influence into everything that I want to do.  Not to neglect also the value of time management.  And most of all, constant prayers to HIM, to strengthen me in my most down times.  Pressures are just a test of character.  There is no pressure or test that we cannot handle.

It’s been years since I graduated from college.  But the pressures in life never ended there.  Actually, it has evolved into much more difficult times.  As the pressures evolved from that point to this point, dealing with pressure has also evolved.  The formula remains the same though.  Never let my limitations hinder the task at-hand, focus on the most valuable strength as the weapon to achieve things.  Be the solution, not be the problem.  As what Stephen Covey has said from his book “Seven Habits of Highly Effective People”, Be A Pro-active Person, not a Reactive Person.

I give this insight to all readers as I end this blog:

Pressure Is Not A Curse…….. There is no need to condemn it.  Bear it in mind that the pressures you have right now is just a test of you and your character.  There are very valuable lessons to be learned that is hidden with it.  These lessons are acquired if you take things positively, never limit yourself by your weakness, but maximize your strength.  There is no test given to you that you cannot handle. 

IT IS A BLESSING………. There are rewards that you will reap once you are able to make it through any pressure that you had.  And it affects you POSITIVELY for the rest of your lifetime.

C”,) c”,) c”,) 

Friday, July 27, 2012

The Anatomy of the New USJ-R CpE Logo

Many have seen the relevance of logos to represent their respective companies, groups, organizations, brands........others.  They may differ in designs, but they tell us something.  The logos describe the vision, the direction, the mission, the product, to which a certain entity represents.  Logos are much associated with the term 'branding'.

The USJ-R Computer Engineering Department has replaced the old logo.  The new logo showcases the new package/direction of the department, to produce high quality graduates, with distinction that the graduate is a USJ-R CpE product.




The logo shall be dissected to the following:

This element in the logo shows fundamental information for digital systems, the binary numbers.  This is extensively used in digital systems design and programming.  For a Computer Engineer, acquiring this knowledge is very essential, as this his foundation in the development of new hardware systems, and into logical approaches to higher levels of programming, whether for applications, embedded or firmware systems.  Thus it is said, as a Josenian Computer Engineer, he will carry the 1’s and 0’s for the rest of his professional life.




Another element in the logo shows the robotic arm, which has been universally recognized as one of the major thrust for Computer Engineers.  Building robotic arms is an example of hardware machine being able to function based from a stand-alone program embedded into it, or being computer controlled.  Thus, robotic systems belong to a bigger category called Embedded Systems. Embedded systems development comes in many forms, whether creating machines for vehicles, industries, network systems, mobile gadgets, household appliances and so much more.  A Josenian Computer Engineer is very much knowledgeable in embedded systems.






This element is the universally recognized symbol for wireless connections.  Wireless connectivity is one area in network systems infrastructure.  A Josenian Computer Engineer are trained not only on the concepts on wired and wireless communications, but also on administering the infrastructure systems.  Computer Engineers have already contributed much to advancement and innovation of digital communications.






This element can be recognized as a digital hardware system implemented into a printed-circuit board.  This is the penultimate stage of a Computer Engineers research, design and development of a digital system.  This represents a work presented into a prototype, and later on, into marketability.  Josenian Computer Engineers are trained not only on different modules for programming, digital systems design, and networking systems, but integrating all of these on developing real projects that shall give much contribution to society.




The wheel at the back of the elements shows that Computer Engineering is among the many professions in the Engineering discipline.

The text ‘Computer Engineering Department’ exhibits that this logo is conceived and owned the by the CpE department.  On the other hand, the text ‘USJ-R’ also indicates that a Josenian Computer Engineer is guided by the vision and mission of the university and the college to which the department belong.

Furthermore, the round figure that encloses the entirety of the logo exhibits roundedness, dynamism, and open-mindedness of a Josenian Computer Engineer.

With the new logo, it shows that the USJ-R Computer Engineering Department has shown new direction in the field of Engineering and Information Technology.  To develop high quality Computer Engineers, adaptable to any fields of specialization, highly employable not only in the locality and the country, but also to make an impact globally.  This logo is a brand.  This brand is USJ-R Computer Engineering Department.